Attracting a Mate: Abraham - Hicks

Great video on attracting a mate by Abraham - Hicks.

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Notes:

Abraham guides a guest through the deliberate creative process in relation to finding a mate…

• Like so many people, you are describing the reality of what you’ve been living. You made so many clear statements here as if you are shouting to the Universe, this is who I am. This is how it is for me.
• When you conclude that this is the way it is, this is the way it continues to be.
• So what you have to do is take what you think and out of that contrast let your desire be born of what you now want. Speak that and visualize that until it has changed.
• You know what you’ve lived, so out of that keen awareness of all that you no longer want, give a piece of the clarity of what you know you do want.
• This is what you should be saying: I want someone who adores me, someone who seems me as I am. I want someone who appreciated the fullness of that which I am.
• Now that you’ve made these statements, they are coming from an unfamiliar vibration. So from where you currently are, you must now find your way to that vibration. Find a memory or make one up, some little inner change that feels like what you just said you want. E.g. if someone were in your life and were loving you, how would that play out?
• When you get to the vibrational harmony, the more real it feels to you, the more you are in the state of allowing the express, explicit details of what you’ve been telling the universe what you want.

with love & gratitude

Connect to Your Passion: A Letter from Deepak Chopra

Passion is the free flow of natural emotional energy that leads us toward the fulfillment of our dreams, desire, and purpose in life. Even though some people feel like they’ve lost their passion or never had any to begin with, in reality we all have passion or we wouldn’t be alive. The reason why so many feel bored, lost, or adrift in life is that they have become disconnected from their deepest desires.

As we are growing up, some of us receive the message that we don’t deserve to have desires, that what we want is unacceptable, or that it’s wrong or selfish to go after our dreams. Or we may feel powerless and think, “Why bother having desires when they will never be fulfilled anyway?” We then suppress our desires, even to the point where we’re no longer consciously aware of their existence.

No matter how deeply we’ve buried our desires, they are a force of evolution and growth that can never be completely halted. When we reconnect to what our soul is yearning for, we will find ourselves naturally expressing our passion and experiencing the expansion of happiness in our life.  Here is simple practice you can use to rediscover your true desires:

1. Begin by meditating for a few minutes and connecting to the experience of stillness and silence. Then ask what your heart deeply desires and yearns to express and listen quietly for an honest response. For the time being, don’t fixate on any one response, let the journey move wherever it wants to. This part also requires you to develop trust in your inner voice. As the process deepens, you will gain insight into whether a desire is coming from your ego or your real self. Does it feel relaxed and loving? Is it coming from a place that already feels good about itself?  Does it want this for others as well as for oneself? These are the desires that the universe will support and therefore which will be manifested most easily.
2. Ask yourself, “What are my unique gifts and talents? How can I use them to bring happiness to others and to myself?” Answers always come, but what I have discovered is that many people have such a strong filtering mechanism that they won’t even entertain certain responses and say that they aren’t getting any answers. The important thing when you are listening for an answer is to not to immediately reject what comes to mind just because it doesn’t match your preconceptions.

Just dig in deep and find out what really matters to you. Keep at it and don’t settle for “I don’t know what I have to offer others” or “I’m not really great at anything.” Don’t let yourself get stuck in notions that your passion has translated into work that you do for the rest of your life, or that it has to be grand or spiritual. Let it grow out of what you are doing today, right now, so that you find meaning and value in your present as well.

Continue doing this daily, asking yourself these two questions and writing down your responses as they evolve over time. Over the weeks, let the answers accumulate, whether they are repetitive or contradictory, or both. After a month, take some time to consider the ways in which your desires and your gifts have found expression in the last few weeks. This is the evidence that you are following your passion.  It doesn’t have to be a simple final revelation; it can be an ever-changing process. Understand that everything you need to know is right here, right now and that it’s just a matter of transcending your limited perceptions to experience the passion, joy, and purpose of your life.

With love,
Deepak

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Words that heal

by Deepak Chopra

There is a long tradition, both East and West, about sacred words. We don’t resort to that kind of thing very much in modern life. If you are a devout Catholic you repeat the rosary, and in many sorts of Buddhist and Hindu meditations a mantra is repeated over and over. There are two reasons for this, usually. One is that the repeated words go directly to God, as prayers do. The other is that repetition fills the mind with a deeper intention that can create a good effect.

I wonder if it isn’t time to consider how words can help to heal. I’ve been fascinated for a long time about how to update traditional spiritual practices, and this one is especially promising.
What can a mere word do to heal?

In ordinary life words can be incredibly powerful, creating instantaneous, often dramatic changes in mind and body. Think of the difference between hearing the words “You’re hired” and “You’re fired.” How many lives have been changed by “I love you”? Yet we actually know very little about how to consciously employ the effect that a single word can have.

Let me make some suggestions for you to ponder:
Withhold harsh words: Being honest doesn’t mean being brutal. In the name of telling the truth, we’ve all heard — and said — things we’re sorry were ever uttered. It’s worth remembering that every cell in your body is eavesdropping on the brain, and when you feel hurt or shocked by what you hear, the same shock is occurring to hundreds of billions of cells.

I became a doctor just on the cusp of a big change in this regard. It used to be that physicians hardly ever told fatally ill patients that they were dying, often withholding even the diagnosis. (When the last emperor of Japan died, he was not told his diagnosis — the old practice still holds in other cultures.) It was thought that receiving bad news could hasten a person’s death and impair his chances of recovery. This effect is known as nocebo, the reverse of placebo. In essence, your body metabolized bad news and becomes sicker, or it metabolizes good news and starts to heal.

Today, we believe it is only ethical to give patients full disclosure about their illness, and on the whole that is the right thing to do. But it doesn’t erase the nocebo effect. Leaving medicine aside, consider withholding harsh, harmful truths in daily life. There is no reason to discourage a child, for example, by saying hurtful things.

It’s well known in psychology that descriptive statements (such as “you’re lazy, you can’t be trusted, you’ll never be as smart as your sister,” etc.) make a much deeper impression than prescriptive statements (such as “pick up your room, remember to come home on time, be nice to your sister” etc.) Sometimes a single derogatory sentence from a parent or close friend can remain stuck in the brain for life, serving as a toxic seed that grows into a belief that one will never be good enough, smart enough, or beautiful enough. It’s much harder to remove these seeds than not to plant them in the first place.

Words that heal: Besides holding back on harsh and derogatory words, saying words that heal really works. Offering reassurance in an anxious situation settles people. Reminding someone that they are loved, respected, and valued should be a habit. Such words serve to bond two people together at a deep level if the words are backed up with simple, sincere, believable emotion — not over-stated emotion but natural feeling. We tend to be shy about exposing ourselves emotionally, but only if you try can you gain the benefit.

Then there are words we say only to ourselves, silent words of healing. In the East there are thousands of such formulas, many gathered under the loose term of mantra, that are repeated in order to infuse the mind with their good effect. You can’t get much effect from repeating a word like love, compassion, kindness, and forgiveness when your mind is agitated or filled with the flotsam of everyday life. But if you deepen your awareness through meditation, which brings one’s attention to a level of silence beneath the surface static, then healing words can have quite a strong effect.

It is taught that healing words, when said at a subtle level of the mind, can do several things. They can purify the mind of negative thoughts by introducing a more positive effect (such as replacing “It’s my fault” with “Blame won’t help anybody”). A healing word can bring comfort; it can add a positive element to your surroundings. It can improve your mood and the overall tone of your demeanor, which others will notice and take heed of.

I’m suggesting that healing words need to play a more important role in our lives. This is a vast territory worth exploring. As a society, we’ve become experts at words that definitely don’t heal: gossip, cynicism, skepticism, accusation, partisan wrangling, smear campaigns, and character assassination. As a result, we know all about the bad effects of such words. Why not consider the positive effect of saying words that work in the opposite way?
Published in the San Francisco Chronicle

The Law of Attraction is Working for You Only Because You Are Attracted to it from Love

The law of attraction is not so much a law as it is really only a description of what happens. This great law only ever describes the truth about how life works within God. There is only one substance, and all is one. This is the one great truth.

If this truth is true, how can there be any externally working law of attraction?

One substance just forever is and it cannot attract itself to itself. It is just what it is. God has said the same thing in the bible, I am that I am, or I am who I am. No further description is ever necessary or even possible.

Some of us need to take steps to see this oneness once more again. The law of attraction is one such step that leads us back again to this oneness of love that is living within us at all times trying to be us.

The simplest of metaphors is simply to compare it all to love. When you love you attract love, when you do not love, you still attract love. This is because love is a oneness, and whatever you do, you will always end up only ever attracting love back again to you.

How does this compare to the law of attraction?

Well this law of attraction is a sub component of the law of love. Love’s law simply says that all is love. Love makes up all things.

When you allow the law of attraction to bring you what the love in you requires, it will work in the fastest way for you then. However, when you want something other than only love, it will act to bring you love in the exact ways that you are not wanting it right now by wanting something else.

This law and all laws only ever work under the law of love, and so are always subordinate to it.

If the law of attraction does work then it must be a law affecting only the segregated free parts of oneness. Soul is a part of God created as a free independent part.

How does the law of attraction apply directly to our soul then?

I will use here the metaphor of a force field to describe how the law of attraction actually works.

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Louise Hay - You Can Heal Your Life - 5

Have a mirror handy for this video.

Tips:

1. Look for the negative messages still left in your mind.
2. Be objective of the messages. Make the list of verbal or implied messages left by your parents
3. You keep repeating negative experience because the belief is still in you.
4. Notice how your body reacts.

Enjoy!

Louise Hay - You Can Heal Your Live - 4

Video Points

1. Denial of our good is not loving ourselves.
2. The universe will back up whatever we say and when good comes into our life and we deny it, this is the act of not loving ourselves and we literally push it away.
3. Babies know the perfection of their being. They are full of love, life and express their feelings freely. They express then it’s over. We were all like that but lost it somewhere.  Where did you lose your love for yourself.
4. Look in the mirror and say, “I love and accept you exactly as you are.”
5. What do you think is wrong with you?
6. We are always perfect wherever we are in life.
7. Must periodically do some mental house cleaning.
8. Make a list of all the negative things people said about you.

Louise Hay - You Can Heal Your Live - 3

Have a pen and notebook with you here.

Video Points

1. Your inner belief creates your outer world.
2. I should…
3. Learn to replace should with could. eg If I really wanted to I could… so why haven’t you.
4. Why do I not love myself?

Louise Hay - You Can Heal Your Life - 2

Video Point

1. If you don’t believe it with your gut, you’ll have a difficult time creating your life.
2. Love, joy and happiness comes from the heart.
3. What you put out you will receive.

Inspirational Video of the Day - Love

Today’s Life Lesson is about Love.  I found the below video, very inspirational and loving.  Share your love willingly with everyone and watch the Universe bless you back with love.

Share you love…enjoy!

32 Keys About Life - Day 24 Love

Author: Ken N McIsaac

Love

There are various kinds of love with even more definitions of each. One popular version might be described as the desire for two people to spend their lives together, with a continuing compassion for each other through good and bad times.

Joseph Addison (1672-1719) puts it quite nicely this way: “Two persons who have chosen each other out of all the species with a design to be each other’s mutual comfort and entertainment have, in that action, bound themselves to be good-humored, affable, discreet, forgiving, patient, and joyful, with respect to each other’s frailties and perfections, to the end of their lives.”

Of course it isn’t always easy because conflicts about ideas, choices and habits arise. Some of these conflicting situations are easy to overlook while others can be very annoying, upsetting, and continual. Some personal mannerisms of one may never suit those of the other, and compromise cannot always be reached. Parting ways might seem inevitable, but often relaxing and rethinking the whole picture can result in a positive turn.

For example, many difficulties in a friendship, including marriage, can be put to the back by the simple act of resignation. By accepting certain personal conditions as permanent, they will somehow become more acceptable. Eventually the conflicting ideas may not be much of an issue, thanks to resignation. This leaves more room for mutual contentment and fondness.

Has the other’s point of view been considered earnestly? How about a commitment to doing things that are basically unfavorable if it will improve the relationship? What are the other’s favorable traits and conditions that are being overlooked? Nobody has to be perfect!

“If you wished to be loved, love.” - Lucius Seneca (3-65)

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